You read e Harmony Advice religiously, show up right on time for dates and maintain steady contact with the women you see.Still, you can't help but notice that as time passes, women always seem to become increasingly unresponsive and “busy”. Avoid being known as “the guy who did such-and-such” by reading these ten dating mistakes that could be preventing you from making the cut.“I’m a Spin instructor, and I always see participants chatting before class,” says Jenna Vozella, who is also a personal trainer and fitness blogger at A Fit Girl's Martini.“Ask if she’s taken the class before, if there are other instructors she recommends, or if there’s a healthy place to get a smoothie or snack around the gym.” 2. Yes, Lycra leaves little to the imagination, but her mindset when she’s wearing running gear in the park is very different than when she’s wearing spandex in the club.
Or, maybe, she just doesn’t want to see you that much.That way, she won’t be put on the spot and you’ll both be able to determine whether you have things in common.” 3. At the gym, your conversation entryway might be literally written on her back.According to Jessica Green and Meghan Reynolds, founders of Brooklyn’s Hot Bird Running, asking about her outfit’s a good call.Maybe you’re giving her an earful because you feel nervous.Or maybe your one-man show is just an attempt to impress her.Here, the best tips that’ll make her change her focus from working out to going out—with 1. People tend to hit the gym at similar times, and she’ll be more likely to want to have a conversation with you if she recognizes you than if you’re a total stranger.